Putting Your Shoes On

Dear readers,

I am sorry for the recent leave of absence. I have just graduated from college and have been experiencing a bit of an identity crisis. What do you do when you've been a told to do one thing your whole life and suddenly its over and your supposed to fling yourself head first into something else?

Well, after a brief moment of Kafka like melding with the couch, I pulled myself together and decided to figure this next step out gracefully - whatever that means.

I recently got some great advice from someone whom I respect and admire. She told me that you've got to put your shoes on to take yourself seriously.

So, here's to putting on shoes and stepping into the future and figuring this whole life thing out - or at least having a good time trying (which I think is really the point).

A New Year

The season for resolutions has begun!

In the past, I have found the practice of New Years resolution-ing to be an unproductive, self-deprecating tradition rife with the sweet smell of hope and success, yet tinted with the stench of failure. 

Not to be a Debby-downer, but if most of America (if not the western world) is vowing to eat healthier, exercise more and lose weight yet again, how many of us can say that our resolutions to do the same last year and the year before and the year before were successful? It seems to me that if we are all still hoping to lose that 10 pounds, we have had to face the awful truth that we have failed to achieve our previous year's resolutions yet again. Certainly, facing up to that failure is a painful experience. A stale, sour experience which does not encourage the setting of further goals - the stuff of growth, self-confidence, and life. 

For the sake of our psyches, the strength of our self-confidence, the integrity of our word, and the hope for growth, it is time that we all sat down and resolved to keep our New Years resolutions - whatever they may be. 

Fortunately, this year there is a new tool in the resolution keeping tool box: a website called StickK.com where users can enter into binding contracts with themselves to stick with their commitments. The creators of StickK.com use the principles of behavior economics - namely that incentives get people to do things - to help people make goals and stick to them. After setting a goal, users vow to report to a referee (virtual or real) each week, and if the weekly goal is not met, users can arrange to fine themselves a specified sum sending the money to a person, charity or even an "anti-charity". The idea is that, the threat of losing money provides an incentive for people to stick with their goals. 

So this year, with StickK's support, I have jumped back on the resolution bandwagon, and I hope I can inspire some other's to do the same. Achieving goals is the spice of life, so let's all get out there and spice it up!

Happy New Year!